Merry Christmas

It's Christmas morning. I decided to start a new blog. The old names didn't make sense anymore. Justin is here. It's nice to have someone in my space. He is a good friend. Not the person for me, but he cares about me. I care about him, We get it each other. I like spending time with him. So, why not him. Why not be with him. Because I am not attracted to him in that way. I don't think it will change either. And maybe that shouldn't be everything. But it feels like it is something, Like my therapist said, he can be a friend. A good friend. That's what we are anyways. What I do know is that I can't keep holding on for the wrong reasons. I want someone in my life. I want romance. I want someone to love me. To connect with. We all want that, and it can't be that hard to find. I will get there. In the meantime, Anni, trust you will find that person and move on. Remember, you are here for a reason. There is someone and something out there for you. Trust that. I am pretty grateful for what I have in life. I am healthy. I am happy. I have the mental support I need. My team loves me. My apartment makes me smile. I can swim every day. I can ride every day. I have enough money. I hav ea steady job. I have a loving family. I have hope. I have adventure. I have good friends. Thank you. 

I am grateful for...

- Memories of Papi

- People in my life who care about me

- Friends and family

- My health

Goals:

- Calcium intake 

- Weight training 3 x week

- Pilates

- Finish IIN course 

- Crisis course




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