Grateful

I'm getting there. Yesterday was hard at first, and then it got better. Why? Because my bike actually works now, I hope. The derailed hanger was stripped so I was able to get the maintenance guy to jimmy rig it with another screw. We will see if it holds. I probably will just stick with that for a while though. The trainer. That's all I need really, and to be honest, I am a little nervous about riding outside. I will get there though. I need a place first. Fingers crossed I get that place with the amazing view. So hopeful, yet cautiously optimistic. First floor is great too because I will be able to come and go with my bike easily. It doesn't have a good gym or elevator, but that's ok. It has a bathtub. That's important. We will see how this all evolves. The team is great, and I think little by little we will get there. I did get a little too nervous with the bike not working, but for good reason. It's important to me. Interesting how we take things for granted sometimes. I was so upset and then so happy when it was fixed. If it were never broken, I would still be upset that I wasn't riding outside. Be grateful, Anni. BE grateful for everything you have. You didn't lose your job and husband like Paola told you yesterday. You have a great job where people praise you, you have a great team, you have a family that loves you, you hav your health, you have financial stability, you have an education and experience, you have a hobby and a mans to buy bikes, you have the ability to travel and have new adventures and experiences. You have friends that care about you like Jenny and Peter and Sonja, you have a man who loves you and cares about you. You have everything, Anni. Embrace that. Cherish that. Hold on to that.

I'm grateful for everything. 

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