Passive

It's 7, I woke up late today. I think I'm sick, I'm sure it was the hike that did it. I had a dream with poppy. We were in his house, for some volunteer thing. We were hosting, poppy place and he was staying in a room. Patty was sleeping when a fight broke loose. Everybody was running, it was scary. As if it was something else like a shooting. I heard Liv talking to Ana about making sure they cover their backs in case they get dinged on damages and poppy got one of the messages. He was soft, curious, mellow. He is like that in all of my dreams. Passive. I wonder why that is. I probably have unresolved issues with him. Like that he cheated on mommy, the money that he sent to Chile,  how he treated mommy. All of it. How mommy didn't do anything and that's maybe why I can't be in a healthy relationship. But, I will fight that pattern. I will find someone. I won't look for it though. I just need to live my life. Throw myself out there. Try new things, and it will show up. At the right time. Right now I just need to enjoy Ecuador. Enjoy life. Trips, adventures, getting out of my comfort zone. 

I'm grateful for...

- life

- bike rides in groups 

- my health 

- my team at work 

- spending time talking with volunteers yesterday 


Deceased parents appearing passive in dreams might reflect the dreamer's ongoing grief, the desire for closure, or the need to process unresolved feelings, rather than a literal representation of their state of being. 

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